I’ve had several clients lately who are right in the middle of manifesting incredible new results and are really being thrown off their game. My guess is that many of you also have this challenge!
Here’s what it looks like. You create an inspired intention for a new result you want in your life or business. Then you make a decision – a real decision – to create what you want, no matter what! When you do that, opportunities appear – resources, “teachers,” programs that will help you get what you want. You say yes to those opportunities, even though they are a stretch and scare you, and you begin to change things – your behavior, your thoughts, and your actions.
And then suddenly you find yourself in the middle of one giant whirlwind of chaos.
Welcome to the middle stage of manifesting!!
You are not who you used to be. But you’re not yet who you want to be.
You’re not doing things they way you used to do them. But you’re not yet doing them as you’d like to be doing them.
You are changing the way you’re being, thinking, and acting, and the people in your life who you thought would support you are reacting in ways you never expected.
Nothing is the same as it was, and yet it’s not yet where you want it to be. You no longer have your old life, but you also don’t have your new life yet.
Everything you want is on the other side of that chaos. And yet many of you will not get there. Because you will either turn and run back to where you came from (which, by the way, no longer exists), or you will stay mired in the chaos for months or even years.
There are three things you must do to survive this stage of the manifesting process.
Survival Tip #1: Recognize the mess for what it is. The chaos there actually makes a lot of sense! Anytime you want something that you don’t already have, it’s because what you want is at a different frequency than you are. So you must change your frequency by changing who you are being and what you are doing. The middle stage of manifesting is where all that change occurs. And of course it feels like you’re disconnected from who you used to be and who you want to be – because you are! Just knowing this can help you view it differently.
Survival Tip #2: Keep moving forward. In truth, you can’t go back. Because you’ve made it this far, your consciousness is higher than it was when you were there. And if you go back there, it will now be 10X more painful than it was the first time, because you know more. You know more is possible and you can no longer pretend it’s ok to live a smaller life than you are meant to live – to settle for or tolerate a life that doesn’t serve the you that you are here to be.
Survival Tip #3: Get the support you need to make sure you make it to the other side! I have yet to meet someone who is living and playing big that has made it where they are without the support of someone who has already done it. (myself included!) Many of you have been “programmed” to see asking for support as weak in some way. This thinking is especially prevalent in the middle class. What’s interesting is that if you really look closely at the people who instilled this idea in you, you’ll notice that they don’t have the lives they want. And yet, by not questioning what they’ve taught you, you’ve basically allowed them to steer your life and results.
Bonus Tip!: Use your unique gifts and design to help you move through the middle step faster and less painfully. For those of you who have already done Manifesting Design work with me, you already know the unique ways in which the chaos will show up for you how you’re designed to move through it. Listen to the recording of your initial session again or contact me for additional coaching using your design. And for those of you who haven’t yet worked with me to learn how you’re uniquely designed to manifest the life and business you want , I have one question – “Why the heck not?!”
Your amazing life is calling! Use these tips today, and I’ll see you on the other side!
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